Hello friends! I hope this post finds you well! I had an itch to blog this evening and wanted to share my ever-changing New Year resolutions with you. If you’re like me, every year you make a handful of resolutions to be a better version of yourself. Exercise more, eat less, start a new hobby, the list goes on and on.
This year my resolution was to read one book a month. As I’ve shared before, while I love to write, finding the time to read is a challenge. Between a busy schedule, and my own stories bouncing around in my brain, it’s hard to sit down and focus on a book. But just because something is difficult doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try, and that’s what New Year resolutions are all about, right? The tradition is in the attempt, and whether we succeed or fail, if we get the chance, we’ll be back next January with a whole new batch of resolutions.
So, it was time to start my resolution, and I knew just the book I wanted to re-read to get the year started. I chose The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. I first read the story as a junior in college during a rough patch in my life and it made an impact. If you haven’t read it, it’s a short but powerful story packed with many life lessons. It’s one of my favorites! If you buy one book this year, you should buy Super Penguin, but if you buy two books this year, then you should buy The Alchemist.
The book is about a young boy named Santiago, and his quest across the desert. During his quest, he meets several characters and learns impactful lessons. My favorite is The Secret of Happiness. Below is that excerpt from The Alchemist.
A certain shopkeeper sent his son to learn about the secret of happiness from the wisest man in the world. The lad wandered through the desert for forty days, and finally came upon a beautiful castle, high atop a mountain. It was there that the wise man lived.
Rather than finding a saintly man, though, our hero, on entering the main room of the castle, saw a hive of activity: tradesmen came and went, people were conversing in the corners, a small orchestra was playing soft music, and there was a table covered with platters of the most delicious food in that part of the world. The wise man conversed with everyone, and the boy had to wait for two hours before it was his turn to be given the man’s attention.
The wise man listened attentively to the boy’s explanation of why he had come, but told him that he didn’t have time just then to explain the secret of happiness. He suggested that the boy look around the palace and return in two hours.
‘Meanwhile, I want to ask you to do something,’ said the wise man, handing the boy a teaspoon that held two drops of oil. ‘As you wander around, carry this spoon with you without allowing the oil to spill.’
The boy began climbing and descending the many stairways of the palace, keeping his eyes fixed on the spoon. After two hours, he returned to the room where the wise man was.
‘Well,’ asked the wise man, ‘did you see the Persian tapestries that are hanging in my dining hall? Did you see the garden that it took the master gardener ten years to create? Did you notice the beautiful parchments in my library?’
The boy was embarrassed, and confessed that he had observed nothing. His only concern had been not to spill the oil that the wise man had entrusted to him.
‘Then go back and observe the marvels of my world,’ said the wise man. ‘You cannot trust a man if you don’t know his house.’
Relieved, the boy picked up the spoon and returned to his exploration of the palace, this time observing all of the works of art on the ceilings and the walls. He saw the gardens, the mountains all around him, the beauty of the flowers, and the taste with which everything had been selected. Upon returning to the wise man, he related in detail everything he had seen.
‘But where are the drops of oil I entrusted to you?’ asked the wise man.
Looking down at the spoon he held, the boy saw that the oil was gone.
‘Well, there is only one piece of advice I can give you,’ said the wisest of wise men. ‘The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels of the world, and never to forget the drops of oil on the spoon.’
What I love most about this lesson, is that everyone’s “marvels of the world” and their “oil on the spoon” are all different. For me, the “oil on my spoon” is this journey with Super Penguin. Writing, blogging, selling are all things that I think about frequently and get a lot of my brain space. And my “marvel” is a month and a half year old boy and his mom, who I can’t describe how much they mean to me. So that’s my NEW New Year Resolution. Seeing my marvels, and keeping that oil on my spoon.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!! I want to hear back from you! In the comments below: What are your resolutions for the new year? What book(s) should I add to my 2022 list? And what are your marvels and oil on the spoon?